Abundant Rest and Happy Taurus Season to my amazing jutterflies, ♡
Happy Belated Solar Return to my blog, turning 1 on 11 April 2022! > yes, my blog is a Taurus baby.
The focal point of this entry is going to be on unconditional self-love.
Heart Chakra Music playing, followed by 'It Was Divine' by Alina Baraz.
"Adhere to the same advice you give so wholeheartedly."
The title and quote above is from an art piece I posted on 11 February 2022. (will be pinned below)
It was the truth; the truth that should resonate and echo throughout the ears, hearts, minds, souls, and spirits of everyone who sees and hears it.
Think about how easy and how empathetic it is to pour wisdom, light, and love into someone who we may know, may care about, may love, or may just be deserving of our cherishing words of wisdom.
How fast you could say to someone:
"You are worth more than that",
"You do not deserve that",
"You got this,
"I have faith in you",
"You should not have to go through that",
"You are so much better than that",
"I wish you more than the best".
"You are strong, you can overcome anything."
Hm, pretty easy, right? Those quick eight statements, oh how simple it is to say the words. If it is easy and simple, say them to yourself. Here lives when the trickiness seems to spark more than just a pip of light.
Say it whenever...
...times are tough.
...intrusive thoughts are a tab bit too loud.
...you are not feeling you.
...things just do not feel okay.
...nothing feels like it is falling in place.
...your mind is playing tricks on you.
...you are not feeling okay, okay?
Why do you not give yourself that same grace, or even offer it to yourself? Do you feel as if you do not deserve it? Do you not feel worthy of it?
You blow kisses of love, speeches of triumph, embraces of passion, and fill the glasses of your friends, peers, and loved ones, yet it is so difficult to prioritize yourself. Who is to say, they need it more than you? You must make sure that you are there for you, and there for yourself, more than 100% of the time. 100% for yourself, is not enough, take as much as you require.
If you desire confirmation or a sign to let you know that you are worthy, here it is. "You are worthy, I am worthy." Every second, millisecond, minute, hour, whatever increment of time that you have the opportunity to breath, shows that you are worthy. You are always worthy.
Only you know and are aware of the tasks and vicissitudes of your life. You and only you. "Treat yourself correctly. Love yourself entirely. Understand yourself fully. Finally, live in authenticity."
Do not allow your past to define your present. Everything happens for a reason, but do not think the past is the only reason you are the way you are today. Your burdens or traumas do not fold you into a single-layered being. You are so much more. There is so much more potential. So much more possibility. Give yourself time. Give yourself you, all of you.
A few weeks back, I went up to my parents a little before bed and asked them separately, "What would it take for you to not love me?" or to "not love me anymore", something around that nature. I think in order to prelude the question, I said "I think I am old enough to be able to ask you guys this, so I am going to ask-."
Each of my parents had different responses:
One said, "Nothing, nothing would ever make me un-love or not love you. That is not possible, you are my son."
The other followed up saying, "Nothing, it would hurt me more to not love you. We may disown you, but we will never stop loving you."
I would not say the answers necessarily did anything negative to me, but I would say it alerted me to be more secure and more transparent with myself. More due to the answer of disowning being a possibility. My mind configured the idea of "Love still present, but disownment active as well."
That, that right there, was the power move. "Love still present, but disownment active as well," the spark of this blog entry. To love yourself endlessly and unconditionally is to handle yourself with care and grace. To allow yourself to make mistakes, to be misunderstood, to not see everything with rose-coloured glasses, to experience, to see all layers of yourself. To just exist, to be secure and locked within.
You are the key to your own self-love.
I reached 10k on 5 April 2022. Such an awesome and extraordinary milestone. Thank you all. Seriously, thank you for the support, the love, the appreciation, everything. It does not go under-appreciated, unnoticed, nor overlooked. I love you all, and I am grateful to have you all apart of my journey. You guys make it all so much better. Trust and believe, it is only up from here!
"Everything I want, I am going to get, because I said so, period."
+ As well, I had my three year loc-iversary (loc anniversary) on 4 April; so proud of how far I have come, and where I am headed. Aries season/the astrological new year never fails to gift me with blissings of abundance.
+ Also expect my YouTube channel to be getting a revamp. I am currently looking for a good camera, if you all have any recommendations, do not be scared to dm me on Instagram. Expect vlogs, expect more, expect the unexpected, expect the ATBJ Way. ☆彡
Top Seven Favourites:
(at the moment & no particular order)
Somebody Like You ˣ Bree Runway
Ordinary People ˣ Tems
Manifestations ˣ Peachkka ft. Kierra Luv
Garden (Say It Like Dat) ˣ SZA
On Sight ˣ Laya
If You Let Me ˣ Alina Baraz
Treat Me ˣ Chloe Bailey
Affirmations:
For the Good of All and Harm to None,
Iye surrender to the Eternal and Divine Forces.
Everything Iye desire comes to me easily and stays with me.
Iye deflect, mirror, and cast back any manifestations or orders made over me that are not in favor of my life, growth, progression, career, or well-being.
Iye Am becoming more and more successful, every day.
Iye Am Not Afraid of Success, Being Successful, or Succeeding.
Iye am Whole. Iye am Loved. Iye am Abundant.
Iye Am Worth It.
Iye Am Famous.
Iye Am Worth It Right Now.
Iye Love Myself.
Iye Love all parts of myself.
Iye Am a successful, magical, prosperous, chaos-being.
Iye deserve everything that Iye desire.
Iye receive fame and recognition easily and they both stay with me.
Iye am Simple Yet Divine.
Iye do not chase, Iye attract. What belongs to me, has already found me and has made itself known to me.
Iye Love Myself.
Everyday, Iye become my Higher Self.
Iye Am My First Priority.
Iye Manifest Confidence along with my goal weight.
Iye am my own Brand.
Iye am Eternally and Divinely Protected, Guided, Loved, and Adored.
Iye Am Powerful.
Iye Am More Than Enough.
Everything I want, I am going to get, just because I said so, period.
Iye am in the timeline of my Highest Good, Deepest Desires, and Ultimate Fulfillment.
Personal Note from Jared:
“Life catches everyone by surprise, why not be the one writing and adding the finishing details.”
Quote from my most recent artwork.
Chosen Lyric:
“I don't need to be loved by you.”
Back to the subject of the entry, self-love is the
only love that you should be longing for.
'Midnight Sky' by Miley Cyrus
Piece(s) Devoted to Entry: Both can be found on Art Instagram.
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Blog entry signed & completed @ 02:59 (01:17 the 21st of April) ♡ ☥ ☼
𝙄𝙩’𝙨 𝙀𝙖𝙨𝙮 𝙏𝙤 𝙁𝙖𝙞𝙡 & 𝙃𝙖𝙧𝙙 𝙏𝙤 𝙎𝙪𝙘𝙘𝙚𝙚𝙙. Written, Spoken, Simple Yet 𝘿𝙞𝙫𝙞𝙣𝙚. — 𝙅𝘼𝙍𝙀𝘿 ☉
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