Be Honest

𝙅𝘼𝙍𝙀𝘿 ☉
Jan 18, 2022
5 min read

Updated: Feb 9, 2022

Hi, :) My amazing jutterflies, welcome back to my blog and the second entry of the year. Hope your year is heading off to a great start and will end even greater. This entry will be serving on the sense and/or the apparatus of duality and acceptance.

Earlier, I was having a conversation and “being materialistic“ was brought up because others are purchasing from luxury brands. (?) I do not quite see the correlation. Obviously there is a connection, but if the shoe does not fit, do not force it. It was a stretch.

I am going to put in my definition of materialistic and then Google’s definition, because that being a response, was personally odd.

My definition: the act of getting soaked and consumed in the material or textural world, whether it be an overpowering love language of gift giving, or thinking that an item(s) can bring you or someone else ultimate fulfillment and/or unending happiness (16:47)

Google definition: excessively concerned with material possessions; money-oriented (16:49)

In my opinion, someone who is purchasing from luxury brands or living a lavish lifestyle does not mean they are materialistic. They have just decided how they want to treat themselves. Not treat as in a little gift to themselves, but treat as in cater or shower themselves. We need to learn that how we treat ourselves reflects how others need to treat us, or what we accept from others. There is nothing wrong with indulging yourself or pampering yourself. It is your body, you are more than allowed to dictate how you bask or revel yourself.

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Now, I am going to turn this entry into another direction.

I was going to go on about materialism and the aspect of it but, I know I have the potential to talk more about than that. I advocate “duality is everything“ and recall making a video about acceptance, so the remainder of the entry will cover such.

Duality Apparatus

”Duality is everything.“

A phrase that has stuck with me to this very day.

The truth, I do speak about duality often, and it is such a beautiful way to take in and look at life. To understand that there is balance; that there is a point of equal position or equal stance, is such a beautiful and complex thing to comprehend.

Taking in and acknowledging that if there is light, there is dark. Knowing that in the closing, there is yet another opening. Seeing, once something has locked, something else has unlocked.

A Straight Line / A Balance Beam

As above, so below. So as above the line, so below the line. Space and the Ocean.

The Weighted Scale

Similar to the balance beam; two "different" instances facing each other but also having the possibility of not even facing one another, yet still equal.

Ying and Yang

As there is light, there is dark. Feminine energy and masculine energy. Venus and Mars.

The Moon and The Sun

Both instances of light, but both having the ability to block out one another, casting darkness. Able to not exist in/at the "same" time or position, yet at the same position across from one another.

With this duality, understand that everything works both ways. As so much someone can agree with you, they will disagree with you. The amount you give to someone, you could receive back, along with the vice versa; the amount you take from someone, the equal or more amount taken from you. There is a balance. As much time you put into something as something equal or greater pours back into you.

Use this analogy with numbers or money to try to grasp the balance:

Say you take $20 from someone. Do you think $20 will be taken from you? No. Say it was their last $20, and how much it meant to them to know that was their last, that you just stole. Its significance is stronger than the world value of $20. Since that $20 also had a significance to you, the significance will show up in another way of what is taken from you. You could not even lose money, period. Something greater could be taken from you. Understand there is duality in everything.

Acceptance Apparatus:

Will cover what I mentioned in a video before.

Acceptance is the lock and the key. In life, there are, of course, going to be different trials, tribulations, problems, and dilemmas; all different adjectives, yet they are all the same thing. At the end of the day, you will and have to depend on yourself. You must depend on yourself. You, quite frankly, have to be selfish. Do not believe when I say selfish, I mean it in a negative connotation. See it in a position, secure, self-serving light.

Although remember, duality exists, as much as you need yourself, you will need someone. You could either see that someone as an actual person, God, the Universe, an Ancestor, or another version of yourself, that guides and helps you.

Healing is the key. Releasing is the lock. Once you heal, you release. Yes, earlier I did mention that acceptance is the lock and the key, but jointly, healing and releasing is acceptance. Hence, the lock and key. You accept that you are healing, the lock. You accept that you are releasing what does not serve you, the key. Whether it may be releasing someone, something, maybe a group of people, an old activity, or even a past behavior. You are letting it go.

Duality & Acceptance was a Joint Apparatus:

Now, when it comes to the idea or session of combining and framing the two together, it is as simple as it is vague.

“Understand the duality of acceptance.”

There are going to be trials that are easier to balance as there are going to be trials that are more difficult to balance.

Acceptance comes with duality. Some items in your journey will be harder to accept, as some items will come as second nature.

And with the duality and acceptance as one unit, there should be security. Be secure in your actions, your words, your life, You. Make sure you are secure in how you live, how you are. Reflect on yourself, what you did, what you could have done, learn and unlearn. Resonate and discontinue.

Affirmations:

For the Good of All and Harm to None,

Iye Surrender to the Eternal and Divine Forces at play.

Everything Iye Desire comes to me easily and stays with me.

Iye Deserve everything that Iye desire.

Iye receive Fame and recognition easily and they Both stay with me.

Iye am Simple Yet Divine.

Iye Do not chase, Iye attract. What belongs to me, has already found me and has made itself Known to Me.

Iye attract abundance, health, wealth, finance, and uncompromising promise.

Personal Note from Jared:

“Surrender”

You are okay. Release it all and surrender.

Chosen Lyric:

“Surrender to quantum consciousness (...) Surrender”

'Surrender' by Jhene Aiko featuring Dr. Chill

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Blog entry signed & completed @ 22:37 (22:53/23:41 the 17th of January) ♡ ☥ ☼

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